On Losing a Daughter
The people we were died at the exact moment our child did.
Family
The Most Tortured Relationship in America
Monogamy is one of the last bipartisan ideals—even if people struggle to live up to it.
In Praise of ‘Difficult’ Kids
Feisty children can be exhausting. They also possess a moral fire that deserves cultivating.
The Endless Goodbye
More than a decade before my dad died, I lost him to dementia.
Different Cultures Define Happiness Differently
Well-being is far from universal. Here are four models to help you understand the world—and your own mind.
We Could Have Changed the World
The upheaval of the pandemic was an opportunity to imagine a better society. Instead, we’re rushing back to “normal.”
It’s Hard to Make Friends When You Move to a New Town
“I think we both experienced some culture shock coming here. It was lonely.”
The Link Between Self-Reliance and Well-Being
Individualism is about having the freedom to be who you are—not going it alone.
The Two Ways to Raise a Country’s Birth Rate
Give parents money and time.
Why In-Law Relationships Can Be So Challenging
Tough conversations provide opportunities for pain and conflict, but also for growth and healing, “Dear Therapist” writes.
3 Rules for Politeness During a Confusing Social Transition
Our pre-pandemic social manners have been upended. But although etiquette is always in flux, its principles should be timeless.
The Happy Patriot, the Unhappy Nationalist
Having pride in your country can lead to greater well-being, but only if you do it right.
We’re Learning the Wrong Lessons From the World’s Happiest Countries
Hygge alone will not save us.
How 1 Friend Can Change the Course of Your Life
“Judo found my house for me in Seattle. Judo gave me all my initial friends [there]. Judo introduced me to my girlfriend, who I live with currently. Judo introduced me to a guy who eventually helped me get my job.”