Family

Ashley Parker and her dad at a Disney theme park
Illustration by Vivian Dehning. Source: Ashley Parker.

The Endless Goodbye

More than a decade before my dad died, I lost him to dementia.

Photo collage on a bright-yellow background: a bunker; a sign reading "fall-out shelter;" a person wearing a gas mask; a family photo of a man, woman, and young baby
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The Most Haunting Truth of Parenthood

What my father learned working in a nuclear-bomb shelter is what every parent knows deep down: We can’t protect the ones we love forever.